Teaching children good manners is one of the biggest gifts a parent can offer. Islam provides a full guide on how to speak, act, and show kindness to others. Good manners not only make children kind in this world but also help them succeed in the hereafter.
5 beautiful Islamic manners every child should learn:
1.Saying Salam First
Islam teaches us to share peace.
Children should learn to say:
Assalamu Alaikum with a smileπ
Roman Urdu:
Bachon ko sikhao ke kahin bhi jao, pehle salam karo. Is se Allah bhi khush hote hai aur log bhi.
Why it matters:
It helps to builds confidence, respect, and positive interaction.
2. Speaking Kindly( Narmi se baat karna)
Islam teaches that harsh words hurt feelings, while kind words can help heal.
Roman Urdu:
Bachon ko batayein ke oochi ya rude tone se baat karna ghalat hai. Pyaar se baat karna sunnat hai.
Teach them phrases like:
“Please”
“Thank you”
“Sorry”
“JazakAllah”
3. Respecting Elders & Loving Young Ones
Islam gives the highest value to parents.
Kids should learn to speak softly, listen carefully, and never raise their voice.
Respect( izzat) is one of the most important values in Islam.
Roman Urdu:
Bachon ko apne parents, grandparents aur teachers ki izzat karna sikhayein. Aur apne chhoton se pyaar se pesh aana sikhayein.
Simple habits:
Not talking back
Helping elders
Sharing toys with younger kids
4. Keeping Clean (Paak safai ka khayal)
Islam says “Cleanliness is half of faith.”
Roman Urdu:
Bachon ko haath dhona, kapre saaf rakhna, apna room saaf rakhna aur wudu ki ahmiyat batayein.
Make it fun:
A small “clean-up time” every evening.
5. Thanking Allah Everyday (Shukr guzari)
A kid who learns to be thankful grows up feeling calm, happy, and modest.
Teach children to say Alhamdulillah for blessings and “Thank you” to others.
Roman Urdu:
Bachon ko sikhayein ke har choti badi cheez par Allah ka shukr ada karein—khana, sehat, ghar, khel, har ni’maat.
Easy habit:
Before sleeping, ask your child:
“Beta aaj kis cheez ka shukr ada karna chahoge?”
π Conclusion
Islamic manners are more than just rules—they help build a strong heart, form good character, and lead a child toward a happy and meaningful life. If we teach children love and respect from a young age, they grow up to be confident, gentle, and responsible Muslims.
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